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Blue Ribbon Singles Column
By Amy Owens, The Singles Coach
The world is populated by simplifiers and complicators. We need both. Together, they make the world go around.
As a general rule, men are simplifiers. Women are complicators.
Men have the innate capacity for boiling down the complex to a few valuable nuggets. One of those nuggets relates to what is important in life. For most men, it goes something like this: Get a good education so you can get a good job so you can support your family; find a beautiful woman that you can make happy. It’s that simple. Find a beautiful woman and make her happy.
OK, why doesn’t every couple live happily ever after? Lots of reasons: 1) Women don’t know this; and 2) Women resist letting men know what will make them happy.
You see, on Mars every man was trained to be self-sufficient and independent. He relied on his own resources. If he needed help, he asked for it. On Earth, he assumes that if she needs help or wants something from him, she will ask for it.
On Venus, women being highly intuitive could sense what another woman needed. They took great pride in providing other women what they needed without being asked.
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